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Robo-Cats Do What Real Pets Can’t for Dementia Patients

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Therapy animals have been well-documented anxiety relievers for the sick, stressed and elderly. But the services these animals provide have limits. For example, therapy animals are mostly brought in by handlers, and so aren’t available in the night when patients are restless. They also need bathroom breaks, to be fed, walked, and to get out […]

Helping People—Other Than Betty White—Make Connections

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It’s not easy growing older in America — and most would agree that society has not done a very good job of preparing anyone for it. Experts on aging say that “round birthdays” — 30, 40, 50, 60, 70, 80, and onward — often cause the most stress. They seem imbued with a special meaning, […]

The Toughest Men On Earth: Male Caregivers

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In an earlier blog entry, we wrote about the forgotten daughters. While these women come from diverse backgrounds, more often than not, they fall into caregiving because they have no other choice. And while caregiving comes from a loving place, it can add stress and become a financial burden. That burden has traditionally fallen on […]

Reflecting on a Life

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When the doctors have done all they can and the life of a loved one is ebbing away, there’s more that can be done than just giving medications to ease the pain. Helping them remember their life can bring a dying loved one thoughts of happier times. It can remind them of who they are […]

A Focus on the Positive Aspects of Care Giving

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Yes, caregiving is a struggle, but beyond the squabbles, the endless work, the negative emotions, the lack of time for yourself — what you are doing is awesome! Remind yourself daily! So often we focus on the problems associated with caregiving. After all, problems need solving. But in order to live each day with a […]

For the Love of the Game

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If you are passionate about sports, don’t expect that love to fade with time. Once a ball nut, always a ball nut. How do I know? I had a granny who was wild about any sport that involved a ball and a few that had no balls at all! My granny was widowed at a […]

Remembering the Heroes that Kept Us Free

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This past weekend across our land, in cities and towns both big and small, people visited those who have passed on before, those who gave their lives to keep us free. Flowers and ribbons dotted the landscape of graveyards as a sign of respect and remembrance for what our brave soldiers did for us. Family, […]

Making the Positive Connection in Spite of the Dementia

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I learned a lot while working in the memory care unit near my home. Many of the residents were pleasant almost all of the time, while others were sullen and obviously unhappy. I did my best to keep a positive attitude, especially to the ones who were not happy campers. Not that I did everything […]

3 Mistakes Adult Children Make When They Step in to Help

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The fact that adult children typically step in when a crisis erupts means that all of the parties involved have made or will make mistakes. Mistakes begin because so many adults fail to complete end of life/legacy plans — specifically a Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA) and health care power of attorney.  A 2020 report […]