Resources for Children Who Care for Aging Parents

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As the delta variant wave of the pandemic washes over the country, children wonder whether they can do more to help their aging parents. Vaccinations are the first and most effective line of defense against a serious illness related to COVID-19. Unfortunately, vaccinations do not protect against accidents, loneliness, or health conditions associated with aging. 

Most children who provide care for their parents have questions about the best way to meet their parents’ needs. The CDC reports that 84% of caregivers “could use more information and help on caregiving topics especially related to safety at home, dealing with stress, and managing their care recipient’s challenging behaviors.”

Getting Help from Government Agencies

The Administration on Aging provides programs and services to help older Americans live independently in their homes and communities. While the agency primarily conducts research and administers grants to public and private organizations, its website includes links to resources concerning nutrition, brain health, fall prevention, caregiver support, and community-based Centers for Independent Living.

The Eldercare Locator, a service of the Administration on Aging, connects older Americans to community resources. Individuals can search by zip code to find information about transportation services, health management, housing options, assisted living, and help with household chores, personal care, and home repairs.

Seniors and their children can visit the Medicare website to learn about government-funded health benefits. The website offers information about additional benefits, including food supplement programs, disability assistance, and veterans’ benefits.

Getting Help from Organizations

Many organizations are useful resources for children who need advice about aging parents. Some organizations, including the AARP and the National Council on Aging (NCOA) are well known. Others, including the Family Caregiver Alliance (FCA) and Adult Children of Aging Parents (ACAP), are more recent efforts to provide information, advice, and resources to family members who provide care for an aging relative.

Some organizations provide specialized help. The Alzheimer’s Association, for example, helps children understand the health conditions that cause dementia in their parents. The organization offers a wealth of information about those conditions, as well as specialized advice for caregivers and links to support groups. CaringInfo focuses on children of parents who need palliative or hospice care.

Other organizations connect children with professionals who can help them. The Aging Life Care Association (ALCA) provides information about life care professionals. The National Elder Law Foundation (NELF) offers information about attorneys who are certified to practice in the area of elder law.

Getting Help from Apps

For a fee, caregivers can use the mobile Caring Village app to create care plans, keep track of medical appointments, and make lists of current medications. All family members who play a role in caregiving can log in and check off tasks on the daily “to do” list. 

CaringBridge allows users to create an online site that allows members of a caring community to share their thoughts, schedule video calls, and ask for help. Similar features are available from Lotsa Helping Hands. Users can use a mobile phone or Windows app to create a shared care calendar, post announcements and photos, and send messages to their loved ones.

Symple is a free app for Apple phones that allows users to record their symptoms and journal their feelings. MediSafe is a free app that delivers a reminder to users when it is time to take a medication.

Taking care of aging parents can be stressful. Sanvello offers community-support and individual coaching strategies for coping with stress, anxiety, and depression. The app charges a fee but offers a free trial.

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