Hi Linda,
These are great questions. It depends on what you have decided on your mother. When you need care for your loved one at home, the best thing you can do is search for home care services in the area. This is a blog post that can give you more information and resources on what you can do when you encounter a situation like that.
Resource: https://eshcs.com/2019/03/14/the-easy-guide-to-home-care/