According to me you should look after your mother and take care of her even if she doesn’t ant you to take care of her. She might be not feeling comfortable to share her feelings with you. There are lot many things that our parents are not able to share with us and they might sometimes do not feel good discussing all those things with us. There are many such elder care agencies are available now a days with whom you can trust and can discuss share every single secret. Such an elder care lawyers helps an individual to take their own decisions regarding the probate wills, etc..